Some would gladly let go of their problems. I have a mindset of thinking the best of people and taking them at their word, but experience has taught me that one needs to judge people by their actions. One should accept that the reality one is experiencing is the reality. One can seek to find excuses for others' behaviours and rationalize one's experiences. If one is given the space to breathe, one can let go. However, when living in hostile environments, letting go can be challenging.